Man Thong
When my fiancée surprised me
with my first piece of sexy lingerie, he knew I'd be nervous about how
I looked in it. So, after handing me my present, he removed his
bathrobe, only to reveal his very own sparkly blue G-string. It not
only relaxed me, but it was a complete turn on. Since then, I've
encouraged him to wear more thong underwear to bed or under his
clothes. I'd love him to "floss" a whole lot more, and wear G-strings
to work, the movies, shopping, wherever. But' he's afraid to be spotted
wearing a thong. What percentages of heterosexual men wear thongs? Do
other women like it as much? How do I get him to be comfortable enough
to keep on "flossing"?
A man is only as sexy as he feels. Most guys I talked with preferred
not having a piece of string between their butt cheeks, but who cares
what most men do anyway. The only man that matters is the sexy,
confidant and thoughtful man you're dating. If your fiancée likes to
wear a piece of string up his butt, who is anybody else to judge him?
I, personally, am not a big fan of the man thong, as I prefer to see a
bootie in a pair of tight boxers. But if we all liked the same things
this world would be a very boring place.
If your boy has a hard time acting comfortable wearing a thong while at
his job or shopping for melons, ask him to slip into something sexy
before he makes it home. Have him go into the bathroom at the
supermarket, or at the office and string up. It's a compromise and a
start, but he'll be in a thong by the time he sees you, and you'll get
a little more thong time out of him. Eventually, if he likes how much
it turns you on, he'll want to wear one more.
Increasing Penis Size
I'm aware that women aren't
always satisfied with their cup size, but I never thought a man really
cared about the size of his penis. However my boyfriend does and he
wants to add at least an inch to his member. He doesn't want to do
surgery, and I know the pumps are useless, but we both want to know if
these penis enlargement pills really work. Is there a pill out there
that really exists that will increase his length? Are there negative
side effects to these pills?
I don't think you'll see results like Alice did when she ingested those
pills in Wonderland, but some men swear that penis pills work. While I
don't necessarily agree, and wouldn't suggest taking the pills, I will
say that since the mind is the most powerful sex organ, if your
boyfriend believes he has doesn't have enough length, width or girth,
chances are he'll never be completely satisfied without trying
something. I don't know if one pill is safer than another, or the best
method out there, but according to the men that love these pills, as
long as you have the commitment and time, the pills, combined with some
recommended exercises, do bring results. Like I said, I don't buy it,
but If it makes him feel bigger and better than I guess the pills are
doing something, if not physically then mentally.
Before ingesting anything, it'd be smart to talk to a trained
professional. Asking a doctor or herbalist about the pills will ease
your concerns about the negative side effects. And please remind your
man that it's not the size of the wave but the motion of the ocean that
makes all the difference. There's nothing wrong with a four-inch cock
or a ten-inch one, as long as the owner of the tool has read all the
instructions and knows how to operate the machinery.
On Gagging
I love to give my man a hummer,
and he loves getting it - Duh! He doesn't always come in my mouth, but
when he does I always gag. It's not that he tastes bad or anything, and
I've never gotten nauseated from his come. What can I do to not gag
anymore? I'm pretty bummed out that he won't come in my mouth.
First, let me clear my throat.
Okay, now that my attempt at humor has failed, why won't he come in
your mouth? If it doesn't bother you that you gag, why should it bother
him? I like that he's concerned about your safety, but your boyfriend
should know that gagging is simply a reflex triggered by pressure at
the back of the tongue or in the throat. If he's pushing his hard dick
way back there, into the dark underbelly of your tonsils, you will
eventually gag.
When it's time for him to ejaculate, have him tell you that he's about
to come. Or, if you can feel how he stiffens right before he explodes ,
make sure to read his body language and as he reaches that point of no
return, move the tip of his penis to the front of your mouth. Use your
hands to move up and down his shaft, and wrap your lips around the tip
of his head. This is a good trick, because while you continue to stroke
his cock with your hand, he continues to feel the warmth and wetness of
your oral seduction. Plus, you'll be able to swallow his come without
gagging, all the while you're still sucking on his hunk of burning
love.
The key is to control how much of his shaft enters your mouth. When you
grasp his rod with your hands, you control it's entrance and exit. By
not going too deep, you should be able to control your gagging. In the
meantime, love the fact that your boyfriend cares enough about you to
not want to make your uncomfortable. That's a pretty cool thing!
After Sex Clean-Up
After my spouse and I have sex
he gets up and gets a cold rough towel to wipe ourselves with. Do you
know of anything else out there that we can use for after sex clean up?
I would love not to have to do laundry after sex.
Buying softer towels is always an option, but that doesn't solve the
laundry issue. In order to avoid those extra loads, baby wipes, or
other gentle cleaning wipes, are an easy solution, especially because
they are marketed as sensitive enough for a baby's bum, and they are
easily purchased at supermarkets and drugstores.
If you are looking for a product that was designed with sex in mind,
there's at least one product on the market. It's called Cum Kleen, and
it's packaged as a neat, disposable "personal wipe for intimate
cleansing." It's a mildly scented handi-wipe that promises not to burn
or alter a woman's natural pH.
Any way you look at it, wipes are the perfect solution. Use them once
and throw them away. There's no messy cleanup and no extra laundry.
Except of course for your dirty bed sheets, but that's another story.
Toys for Boys
I know that there are lots of
sex toys for women, but what's a good sex toy for boys?
There is a growing trend for playthings for Misters, and there are lots
of toys that can be played with by all the boys and girls. Both men and
women have erotic zones that get a charge from vibrators, butt plugs
and dildos.
Two of my favorite toys for the XY chromosome are the Aneros, www.aneros.com,
and the fleshlight, www.fleshlight.com.
The aneros, dubbed the "Male G-Spot Stimulator," promises an intense
anal experience, leading to longer orgasms and heavier ejaculation.
It's small and oddly shaped and made of a hard plastic, and it's
designed to be inserted up the bum to stimulate the prostate.
If being penetrated is not your bag baby, there's always the
fleshlight. Affectionately called "sex in a can," I have heard that the
fleshlight genuinely feels like you're having sex, either with a butt,
a vagina or a mouth. Men that have used this product describe it as a
blowjob without the teeth. It's made of cyberskin, a material that
brings you as close to the real thing as you can get without having the
real thing, and comes in a variety of shapes. Plus you get to pick the
sensation of the skin, from original to super tight or super ribbed.
See, there are lots of options for men, it's just a matter of figuring
out what kind of man you are.
Did I cheat?
I work in a large corporation
and just recently got married. A few weeks ago, a co-worker of the
opposite sex, asked me to go out for a drink. He didn't imply that it
was anything more than a friendly coworker situation, but I didn't want
to tell my husband that a male coworker asked me to go out for a drink.
Regardless, I went out with him, and it was fine, nothing happened.
However now I feel guilty. I never told my husband about my night out,
and I know that if it had been a female coworker I would have had no
problem letting him know my whereabouts. Am I crazy, should I just tell
him or let it go?
This isn't about your husband, it's about you. Why did you feel so
guilty? Is your husband an overly jealous person? Would you have
accepted your male coworker's advances if he had actually made them? If
the answer to questions two and three are no, then you have to get over
it. Move on and forget that it happened. Having drinks with a coworker
is no big deal, male or female.
Now if your husband is excessively jealous or you are having second
thoughts about monogamy, that's another story. Jealousy is destructive.
It's unattractive and at times can be frightening. The person you marry
should trust you enough to know that you can be left alone with members
of the opposite sex without it being a threat to your relationship; if
he is unable to do this, then you need to address the issue of trust in
your marriage as soon as possible. But you must stop beating yourself
up about this – it was only an after work drink. If you can't let go of
feeling guilty, your husband will pick up on your anxiety and may start
to suspect that something is going on behind his back, which will only
make matters worse. If you still can't move on, talk to a therapist.
They will help you resolve whatever issues you may be dealing with.
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