So, I’m beginning to think this blog needs a bit more direction, more of a reason to exist than simply because I’ve decided that it should. Maybe I’ll change my mind about purpose, but at least for now, I’m beginning to feel like I need some guidance, that I need to be writing about sex and relationships and things like that more often.

Now, I’m also one of these people who will say this today, and write a blog that has nothing to do with this tomorrrow…but I am going to try to stick to my guns, at least for a week.

SOME REALLY EXCITING NEWS!!! I am speaking at the Museum of Sex in New York City (27th St. between Madison and Broadway) on Wednesday, April 20th at 7PM. I’m going to teach my workshop, the Sexth Sense: How to Incorporate Your Five Senses into Sex Play!!!

Vibrators I Love: even if they can’t love me back
Here are my picks for favorite vibes….and just so you know….
What qualifies me to give these to you? Well, I’ve worked at a sex shop in New York for almost four years, and in that time I’ve probably sold more sex toys than you have. Plus, I’ve used a lot of toys, both for personal and professional reasons…

Okay.

Let’s talk about vibes. There are lots of different vibrators on the market, and the only difference between a vibrator and a dildo really is that one has the potential to vibrate and one does not. My favorite vibes are hard plastic, which turns a lot of newbies off cause they think that hard plastic hurts if you put it inside yourself, but the truth is, I like the hardness, especially when I want to hit my G-Spot, because in order to get to the G-Spot, you have to go through a wall of muscle in the vagina. (The G-Spot is the urethral sponge). So, again, I like hard plastic. I think it has the best variety when it comes to vibration and it also feels really nice on the clit. But there are also vibrators made of silicone, of soft vinyl, metal, titanium, jelly rubber (a yucky, smelly material in my opinion) and cyberskin. There are probably vibrators made of other materials as well, but these are the most common kinds.

This and this are my two favorite vibes. The first one’s called “The Blueberry Buzz.” It’s water resistant which means yes, you can use it in the shower, and good for both clitoral stimulation and penetration. I like the shape, although I wouldn’t complain if they eventually made a thicker version of this toy, and it’s got a wide range of speeds. You don’t have to use it inside of you, but I like that you can.

The second one is the traditional Pocket Rocket. The waterproof version of this is made by the same company. This is a one speed clitoral vibe…and I love the look and power of this little guy.

Both are under $30 and really easy to clean..just some soap and warm water.
And sometimes men like vibration too. On the balls. On the shaft. On the head of the penis or by the butt.

All I’m saying, is if you haven’t tried it, you might want to…you might like it…Vibrators….not only for the ladies.