I hate to label anything “best” because it’s a subjective word, but when I recently got this email for the “best stuff” I replied as best I could. And now I share with you.

>>> BEST SEX TOY
It’s hard to name just one, so in general I’ll say it’s a vibrator. Both for boys and girls. If I had to pick one today, then right now I’d say the Eroscillator. It’s a three speed plug in with different heads. And it is powerful and quiet. You can also check out the Pocket Rocket or the Ideal if you’re looking for something a little less expensive.

>>> BEST SEX POSITION
Doggie Style (one partner is on all fours and the other partner enters from behind, but not necessarily in your behind) is great, especially if your partner’s a guy and you want him to come, or if you like deep penetration or you have a partner that’s slightly less endowed. I also like when my hair gets pulled in doggie style. Ruff!!!

I like missionary too (one person is on their back, the other is on top of them) because it’s intimate and you can watch each other while having sex, and you have all these great variations depending on where the person lying on their back puts their legs (on shoulders, chest, floor). But picking just one I’ll say woman on top, because the woman on top controls what’s touching where and she can play with her clit at the same time.

>>> BEST LUBRICANT
Eros Bodyglide. Silicone or Water based. I like how it slides. And it has no taste.

>>> BEST SEX TOY FOR HIM
A vibrator. Get one and use it on his balls and/or shaft. A small finger vibe like the Fukuoko 9000 is a good starter. If he’s an ass man, an Aneros - the progasm or the helix…

>>> BEST EROTIC NOVEL
The Story of O by Pauline Reage is a classic. A lot of BDSM and power play.

>>> BEST SEDUCTION TECHNIQUE
It’s nice to tease and then to, later on, follow through. Even after you’ve been together a while, spend some time building up your romantic liaisons with your partner by dropping hints about what you’re going to do to him or her sexually, or by taking them out for a night but leaving the date a mystery. Leave little notes around the house telling them what to wear when they see you. Send emails or text messages that say suggestive things like “Tonight when you’re in my mouth, I’m going to..” and leave them open to interpretation. A good tease can prolong the foreplay and lead to ridiculously amazing sex.

>>> BEST SEX STORE
Hmmm..again there are a lot of good ones out there. I’m going to say Good Vibes. and Babeland are great. I don’t know the others all that well, at least not personally. You can’t go wrong at either one of those though.

>>> LIFETIME ACHIEVEMENT FOR SERVICES TO SEX AWARD
Betty Dodson - for her endless devotion to masturbation, the clitoris and for making the world a safer place for sex.