It’s so much easier for me to have an orgasm without something inside of my vagina, than it is to have an orgasm with something inside of me. I realized this (again) yesterday, while I was happily having the former. I can do it, with the help of clitoral stimulation, but it just takes a lot longer than it would if I were just lying on my back, on my bed, with my favorite new vibe, the Eroscillator.

Orgasms are an interesting thing. Women obviously don’t need to have one to procreate, men on the other hand do, but we often don’t feel completely satisfied, psychologically, unless we have one. I’ve had lots of sex without orgasms, and it still feels pretty darn good, but sometimes I think if he has one and I didn’t, then I was cheated. I never thought much about the technicalities of having an orgasm, about the how it happens, outside of if you rub long enough, and it feels good, the rubbing takes over your body, but there’s been a lot of press recently about Beverly Whipple, the woman who brought the G Spot out of the closet and her latest research on female orgasms and the brain.

One of the cool things she and her team of researchers have identified is “three nerve pathways not previously linked to female sexuality. They carry sensations from the vagina, cervix and uterus to the brain.” She explains that the cervix actually has way more sensation than medical doctors had originally thought. Hmmm…

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