Comments on: Opening Up http://www.jamyewaxman.com/blog/2008/04/17/opening-up/ because seX matters Sat, 08 Oct 2011 16:56:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: Ian and Alicia Denchasy http://www.jamyewaxman.com/blog/2008/04/17/opening-up/comment-page-1/#comment-4292 Ian and Alicia Denchasy Wed, 23 Apr 2008 17:10:32 +0000 http://www.jamyewaxman.com/blog/2008/04/17/opening-up/#comment-4292 Does that make me more selfish than you, or just more honest? Neither. It just makes you, well, YOU. We all have different approaches to relationships and beliefs of how we want them to work. You and your boyfriend have an understanding and it'll work until it doesn't. As for you being "more honest," that's a bit strong. Being monogamous doesn't necessarily mean being DIS-honest about wanting other people sexually. It's turning such wants into action that differentiates you from folks like us. You take the next step, we don't. As for selfish, it might be argued you are actually being LESS selfish than us (being monogamous). We restrict ourselves to each other, while you spread your sexuality and share. Pretty cool, actually. Man Meat and Asian Sexpot Does that make me more selfish than you, or just more honest?

Neither. It just makes you, well, YOU. We all have different approaches to relationships and beliefs of how we want them to work. You and your boyfriend have an understanding and it’ll work until it doesn’t.

As for you being “more honest,” that’s a bit strong. Being monogamous doesn’t necessarily mean being DIS-honest about wanting other people sexually. It’s turning such wants into action that differentiates you from folks like us. You take the next step, we don’t.

As for selfish, it might be argued you are actually being LESS selfish than us (being monogamous). We restrict ourselves to each other, while you spread your sexuality and share. Pretty cool, actually.

Man Meat and Asian Sexpot

]]> By: Hank http://www.jamyewaxman.com/blog/2008/04/17/opening-up/comment-page-1/#comment-4280 Hank Sun, 20 Apr 2008 16:59:39 +0000 http://www.jamyewaxman.com/blog/2008/04/17/opening-up/#comment-4280 Yummy.....drop by Albuquerque. Yummy…..drop by Albuquerque.

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