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Tuesday, July 1 2008

Why Women Hate Porn

Personally: Back from New Orleans as of late last night and I’m feeling in a funk. I miss walking down the street and saying hello to people you don’t know (also called strangers). I miss feeling like I’m not even in the United (or is it Divided?) States – even when I am. I miss the food, the glorious food, and the eclectic mix of drunks and well, other people. Really I just miss the general happiness that is New Orleans.

Professionally: Tracy Clark-Flory over at Salon blogged about this article today. All I’ll say is something’s not right here. Or, more concisely, something is wrong. The article, the Australian one, talks about the fact that many women actually like porn, or at least a sprinkling o’ porn, but the author still tries to drill it in her readers minds that women hate porn. But even she says they don’t hate porn. What’s going on here? I’m confoosed.

The author, one ask Sam!, writes:

In other words perhaps what we need is more foreplay, more romance, more kissing after sex and more (gasp!) story line … now wouldn’t that be porn that women would want to see

Um, that stuff is out there, Sam!. And it continues to be made by more women each and every year. And if you’re looking for more storyline c’mon, you’ve got Candida Royalle. She’s been making that kind of porn, which she prefers to call erotica, since 1984.

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One Response to “Why Women Hate Porn”

  1. Matt Says:

    Well, from my experience with my wife and I running a women-friendly adult store and also running a home party company, we carried a smattering of porn and what really surprised me was that we put a lot of time into lining up some ‘women-friendly’ titles only to find out that they were kinda’ slow movers.

    Most women wanted the full-on stuff and quite a few of them said to skip the bad acting and silly plot lines and get to the sexin’. They really were more interested in attractive people with some chemistry than they were about whether the story had a nice set up to the sex.

    So I’d A)definitely agree that women are into porn. And B) challenge the idea that women only want story lines and romance, because that wasn’t what we found to be the case. At least in our experience.

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