Thursday, August 7 2008
Of course not all men think this way, but I just read What Men Notice When They First Meet You (ivillage.com) and I think a lot of men think like this. I wanted to hate disagree with this article, but I couldn’t. I wanted to hate dislike him, but, well, verdict is still out on that one.
It is important to feel good about yourself, and feel you’re bringing your own version of sexy back. That being said, I think lots of “dudes” have certain set standards when it comes to the structure of sexual attraction. So, if you want to know what the other “team” (or your “team”) thinks, read the article. It’s worth a look.
The author promotes himself as a rock star of sex advice. Here’s his website.
Posted in seX matters by jamye on 08/7/2008 - 2:03pm
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August 8th, 2008 at 10:57 am
Thanks for passing this article along. I wrote about my opinions in a bit more depth over on our blog, but all share my short, short version here.
He’s full of crap. He’s giving his opinion of what he thinks is sexy and passing it off as all guys opinions. You know as well as anyone how varied fetishes are. Imagine trying to write an article of “Here’s what fetishes guys have.” Good luck with that one. Well… guys tastes in what is sexy is even more varied than that.
Here’s my summary opinion from my post. I love girls who dress to fit their own style and attitude. If you think you are sexy in what you have on… chances are, you are right.
August 8th, 2008 at 7:58 pm
The author of the article is way off base. He certainly doesn’t speak for me.
Hank
June 10th, 2010 at 9:01 pm
Extremely insightful. I love the way you write. Do you have an RSS feed?
June 14th, 2010 at 7:17 am
why thank you and yes. feed://www.jamyewaxman.com/blog/feed/
August 5th, 2010 at 11:24 am
I think that the article tends overthink what men really think. Men a very simple people to understand for the most part.