I’m a little slow in getting back on track from a weekend away, but now that I’m back home and settled in, it’s time for sex news square down. Find out why Britain leads the world in casual sex. Plus, a gender-bending football player and a church devoted to orgasm.

• All come to, and for, the Madonna of Orgasm Church. A service where coming close to (but not in the house of) G-d is the goal. (stv.tv)
• Modern Love: I love my husband, but I don’t love sex. Lauren Slater compares the complacency of sex with eating a bowl of cheerios. (NY Times)
• Brian Urlacher, football player, paints his sons toenails and outwardly defies the laws of gender. His ex-wife is not amused, but I think it’s great. (Chicago Sun Times)
• In Zambia, circumcision is the secret weapon in the war on HIV/AIDS. (The Independent)
• Is asexuality the next sex movement? (queersunited.blogspot.com)
• When it comes to casual sex, Britons are the most casual. (Times Online)
• Audacia Ray comes out. A prolific post about her life online, and off.
• One woman’s opinion on 30 things a woman shouldn’t try before 30. (thefrisky.com)