In this weeks’s SNSD, decode your moans and groans (yeah, baby, give it to me), celebrate same-sex marriage and look into the lives of people who don’t need, or want, sex.

• The sounds of sex and their uses. From arousal to communication, what you groan, or grunt, in the bedroom can speak louder than words.  (About.com)
• The changing definition of marriage is changing in the dictionaries we use to define it. (MercuryNews)
• And the changing state of same-sex marriage continues. Vermont becomes the first state to take legislative steps to make it legal. (USAToday)
• Asexuality: An orientation and not a choice? (iol.co.za)
• Opinion: (and a mighty good one at that)..Jeff Silberman examines the lunacy behind things like why Grand Theft Auto was pulled from shelves. “Not because of the thousands of murders the player invariably takes part in, but because he can get a blowjob.” (Tulane Hullabaloo)
• Octo-mom gets a “nannies offer” from porn company Vivid. She doesn’t have to perform in movies, she can let the nannies do all the work. (Xbiz)