This week’s so last week, sex news you may have missed delves into politics, censorship and sex. From the next wave of conscientious objection to the case against John Stagliano (aka Buttman), who’s in control of your sexual preferences? Plus research suggests marriage suffers from a 12-year itch and more! more! more!

• Conscientious objection. For getting out of the military, serving with gay and lesbians is a sucky excuse. (NYTimes)
• New research finds that if the 4- or 7-year itch don’t getcha, the 12-year itch can. A new study suggests most marriages fail around the 12-year mark.  (DailyMail)
• Do you think you can think yourself to orgasm? (CBSNews)
• The US vs. John Stagliano. The first obscenity prosecution brought in the nation’s capital in a quarter-century is thrown out. What does this mean for the rest of us?  (WashingtonPost and Reason)
• Bristol Palin and Levi Johnston, doing it right (fist in air) doing it together. Making a go as a family. (TheFrisky)
• All joy and no fun. Why parents hate parenting. (NYMag)
• Religious sex toys. Are they sacrilegious, even if Jesus helps you find “Oh G-d”? (TheStir)
• Porn and masturbation: The Double Whammy of Evil. (PsychologyToday)
• When bigger isn’t better: meet a model who’s boobs could be the death of her. (Sun)
• Sex education for kindergartens isn’t teaching them how to have sex. In Montana, the debate rages on. (FoxNews via Youtube)