In this week’s sex news you may have missed, can a woman’s orgasm save a man? Lana Wachowski comes out. Benny Morecock. The Pentagon and porn. Having children and the friendship test. It’s all so last week!

• How a woman’s orgasm can save a man’s. (Jezebel)
• Matrix director, Lana Wachowski, comes out for her new film, Cloud Atlas. (HuffPo)
• Another theory on the erotic charge in Fifty Shades of Grey. (TheGuardian)
• Your tax dollars at work. The Pentagon tells its employees to stop watching porn. (LATimes)
• So, not the Cleavers. He & He & He. A Brooklyn throuple and a porn genius. (NewYorkMag)
• Low handlebars may desensitize her clitoris. (MedPageToday)
• Hello Baby. Goodbye Friends. Having children and the friendship test. (DailyMail)
• Breaking up and how to be alone. (Salon)
• Six anal sex toys you may, or may not, want to stick up your butt. (SFGate)
• How, when and why to talk to your kids about sex. (Family.LifeGoesStrong) - Buy: S.E.X.: The All-You-Need-to-Know Progressive Sexuality Guide to Get You Through High School and College